Find out which of your four F’s is failing.

Rate yourself honestly on each statement, 1 to 10 (1 = failing, 10 = victorious). There is no grade — the point is to find the F that’s costing you most.

FAITH

1. I have a clear, living relationship with God — not just beliefs I inherited.
2. My daily decisions are guided by my faith, not just my feelings.
3. I know what my life is for — and it goes beyond my job title.
4. When life hits hard, my faith steadies me instead of wobbling.

FAMILY

5. My marriage (or closest relationship) is strong — not just surviving.
6. The people closest to me would say I’m present, not just around.
7. I’m actively building something for the next generation — not just for myself.
8. I’ve repaired the relationships I can repair, and I’m working on the rest.

FINANCE

9. I know exactly where my money goes — and it’s going where I intend.
10. My income and investments are growing, not just treading water.
11. I’m not one emergency, layoff, or bad quarter away from a crisis.
12. My financial decisions reflect my values, not my impulses.

FITNESS

13. I have the energy my life demands — I’m not running on fumes.
14. My body is getting stronger (or at least not declining) this year.
15. My health habits are intentional — not whatever survives a busy week.
16. I treat my health like an asset I’m building, not a bill I’ll pay later.

YOUR SCORE

Add up all 16 answers (maximum 160).

• 128–160: Victor — you’re winning where it counts. Share this with a man who isn’t.
• 88–127: Inconsistent — two of the four F’s are probably carrying the others. Most men live here.
• 16–87: At risk — one or more F’s are failing, and it’s leaking into the rest.

You don’t have to stay where the score landed. Kevin White has spent 40+ years in business and advised 3,000+ men to be victors in all four F’s — not victims of any of them. One honest conversation can change the trajectory.

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